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Anti-Racist Books: Becoming Better

I don’t think you’re a racist, I think we live in a racist system that’s set up for white people.

I recently wrote that to an old friend who had been called out as a racist on social media. I wanted to find some middle ground somehow so that he and the accuser could repair their friendship, but I think that may be done entirely. So before you read further: remember that every white person you know is in a different place in this journey and your epiphany is not shared by everyone you know. And also, consider the following quote from Robin Diangelo’s White Fragilty – Why It’s So Hard for White People to Talk About Racism:

In my workshops, I often ask people of color, “How often have you given white poeple feedback on our unaware yet inevitable racism? How often has it gone well for you?” Eye-rolling, head-shaking, and outright laughter follow, along with the consensus of rarely, if ever. I then ask “What would it be like if you could simply give us feedback, have us graciously receive it, reflect, and work to change the behavior?” Recently a man of color sighed and said “It would be revolutionary.” I ask my fellow whites to consider the profundity of that response. It would be revolutionary to receive, reflect, and work to change the behavior.

Please, be a revolutionary. Read the books – at least some of them. Do the work.

Last January, the Instagram knitting community erupted: a prominent knit-fluencer wrote about a trip to India in a racist way (that she has since been educated about and has apologized for). That wasn’t my first inkling of racisism in the fiber arts community; MIRLA Fiber Arts posted a plea a month or two earlier lamenting how difficult it was as a POC to launch a fiber arts business, and Sukrita posted about discrimination and representation in the fiber arts.


It’s not just the fiber arts/knittting/crochet/spinning communities.

If the election of our current US president has shown anything, it’s how deeply racist the foundation of our country is and how many people support openly racist ideas and public figures.

For over a year, I’ve been gleaning recommendations from social media (mainly Instagram and Twitter) of books to read to educate myself as a white woman about the things we were not taught in school and our position (including our responsibilities to wider society to be better than the norm) in the wider settler-colonialist, white supremacist system of Western Society, namely the United States.

That’s a lot of buzzwords and trendy phrases for one paragraph! If you begin reading some of the books that have been recommended to me, they will make more sense. And you will actually help POC, including indigenous peoples, by spreading seeds of awareness around with your family and friends. For example, did you know that scalping originated with the English in Ireland, not with Native Americans? I didn’t know that until I read An Indigenous People’s History of the United States by Roxanne Dunbar-Ortiz. They don’t teach that in history classes or in popular culture (i.e., movies); the colonists used scalping as a tactic to terrorize the indigenous New England tribes and in turn taught it to the tribes to use against each other and, eventually, the white colonizers. Read the book for the full story.

So here is a reading list. A friend who is a history professor at a historically black college in the south recommended some of these and some were gleaned from discussions on Instagram, in RISE District, and in Standing Up for Racial Justice (SURJ) both the national and Northern Virginia Chapters. The reading list is basically a graduate level course on racism and white supremacism. I’ve read only a handful of them; the rest I either have or have on a wishlist.

In the order I read them, with to-read at the end (clearly marked). Note that some are works of fiction.

To-read that I have:

To-read that I need to buy or borrow:


2 responses to “Anti-Racist Books: Becoming Better”

  1. My hope is that we continue to learn and grow as a culture and embrace all of the blessings and talents we bring to the conversation. xoxo Regina

  2. Keep seeking to build bridges of understanding over the walls of racism.

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